Wednesday, December 9, 2009

My Dad

My Dad passed away this morning.

It was sudden but that's a blessing. Two years ago in October, he was diagnosed with prostate cancer and given 2-5 years to live. We were blessed to have two good years. Recently the cancer was no longer being managed effectively so it was decided he had to start chemo. His first dose was Wednesday. We're not sure if he already had an infection or if got an infection after the chemo but he had no white blood cells to fight it off. He was admitted last night to the ICU after collapsing at home with dehydration. The doctors discovered a bowel obstruction but couldn't do surgery until his body fought off the infection. He passed away this morning with my mom present. She is with my brother and sister right now and is going home to get some rest.

Dad's body will be cremated and his ashes scattered on the family farm, where both his parents had their ashes spread. There will not be a funeral or memorial service. I've asked Mom to let me know where she'd like donations made if anyone would like to donate in lieu of flowers. I will post that information here.

Dad - you are very loved and already very missed! I look forward to the day when we see each other again!

3 comments:

Michelle C said...

Oh Eden, I'm so sorry about your dad! We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers!!

Joella said...

Eden, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We know this isn't an easy time. Please let us know if we can do anything. I love the pictures of your Dad in Colorado.

The Lorenc Family said...

Oh Eden. I am so sorry.